Destination Wedding Etiquette. 5 Things You Don't Want To Forget. There are so many situations you will encounter while planning your destination wedding that you wouldn't need to worry about at home. Destination wedding etiquette has come up with a whole new set of rules. Don't let this intimidate you. You can have the incredible destination wedding of your dreams (and still not offend anyone).

1. When you decided to have a destination wedding, you probably did so with the understanding that not everyone would be able to make it. This is just how most destination weddings are. There are many reasons that come up. Money, distance to travel or work all come into play.

Be sure to provide plenty of notice for everyone to plan. Send out save the date cards 7-12 months ahead of time, if you can. This will give all of your guests plenty of time to save up money or arrange for time off of work. Many of your guests will be able to make it with plenty of notice. They may even extend their stay to have a vacation.

2. Make arrangements with a destination wedding travel agent. When you send the save the date cards, include the travel agents information. If all of the reservations are made through one supplier, they will be able to get the absolute best deal for all of you. It may be cheaper to purchase a package or to go ala carte. A good travel professional will be able to do this for you.

3. Ask your attendants only if it won't be a financial hardship for them. It's customary for the bridal party to pay for their flight, wedding attire and activities. You should expect to pay for their hotel. If you have the means and want to do more, that would be nice. I'm sure it would be appreciated, but it isn't expected.

4. Be sure to set up an itinerary for the stay. You should have some activities scheduled. Don't feel like you need to schedule every minute, though. Plan for the rehearsal dinner, wedding and post wedding activities.

It's nice to plan an activity that is unique to area. Leave plenty of time for everyone to go off on their own, if they want. Also, be sure to plan some alone time for the couple. You can place a printed itinerary in with the guest bags. This will allow everyone to know what the schedule is.

5. Plan a reception for when you get home. It doesn't need to be immediate, but you want to be sure to celebrate with all of your family and friends who couldn't make it to the wedding. They'll want to be able to congratulate you as well.
by: Brenda Roman